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Generational Trauma Workshop
Something EVERYONE is affected by; critical knowledge ALL of us will benefit by if we want to change our patterns and be part of a solution for a crazy world!
Disarming Generational Trauma – For Yourself, Your Family & Your Relationships
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We all experience trauma sooner or later. It can be small, repeated events or life-changing in-your-face events. Sometimes it is visible and people can empathize, but so often it is hidden away and we feel all alone and overwhelmed.
A lot of our childhood trauma is ignored, normalized, or wiped from our memory. It does not mean it did not happen, nor does it mean we were unaffected. Every trauma, whether we were still small or whether it happened in our adult years, leaves an impact on us. It is our solemn duty to ourselves to become free from what directs our lives with invisible strings, and to empower ourselves by being fully aware of our own part to play in transforming our challenges into stepping stones that will take us towards thriving.
Some of us are more resilient, seemingly getting through trauma more easily than others. That is not how it really is. It is just that some of us have learned better tools with which to navigate this unpredictable world we live in.
This book is your doorway to finding support, getting to know others who have been through the same experiences as you, and starting to use the tools and insights that moved our authors to new outlooks and abilities.
Use this book together with the free worksheet provided, and 12 bonus in-depth conversations with the authors for maximum benefit.
You don’t know what you don’t know. That is the premise of this book. We run on autopilot most of the time. We are creatures of habit. We are programmed by our circumstances, our parent’s internal stories and all the limiting beliefs and trauma wounds handed down over generations.We rarely stop to examine our entrenched outlooks, to challenge our internal dialogues, and we have no tools to replace our habitual behaviors with.This all stops when we run into ‘I just can’t do this anymore’; into ‘There must be more’; and finally, into being broken wide open by trauma or loss.We can learn to live more present lives, more connected lives, more ‘being real’ lives way before we run into that wall that leaves us being road kill. And that is why I curated this book of experts who are helping us see what we don’t see, because we just don’t know.
Use this book as a deep immersion by using the questions in the last chapter to investigate your own life, as with awareness you can make the changes you need,
If you ever wondered if men have the same capability to experience feelings, this will clear that up! These chapters, and the real live conversations that are available to listen to, will tell the stories about:
There will be strong language, there will be honesty and confessions. Guys messed up big time, but they also found clarity and recovery and happiness.
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Our relationships with our fathers will have a significant influence on how we see men. It will determine whether we think they are trustworthy. It will influence whether we will be fearful of being abandoned by men. Through our father’s eyes we look at ourselves – this is how we imagine men will see us. Do we measure up? Or are we always going to over-compensate to make up for us not feeling worthy. And how much bad treatment will we take simply because we fear being abandoned?
If we are lucky enough to be treated by our dads like Princess Cheesecake, the One and Only, but with respect for our separateness, our entire view of ourselves changes. We expect more for ourselves, and we are faster to dismiss relationships that are toxic for us.
Wanting our father’s approval is a very normal desire for a little girl of any age. I remember how my father ridiculed people with normal fear, so at the age of six I decided I was not scared of his pack of ferocious Alsations. They did not eat me, so there must be some truth to the notion that dogs smell fear and will attack. But that experience of trying to impress my father meant that I could not connect to feeling fear. I did not know that I had fear of abandonment triggers, as I simply could not connect to any feelings of fear!
Leoni decided that she would have to be her two sisters’ caretaker. Her dad told her as the oldest they were her responsibility to make sure they were not bullied. So she built herself a bulletproof, tough attitude. ”It was very hard to make friends, as I did not let anyone see the real me. I was longing for a relationship in which I was accepted. I did not realise that my relationships kept failing because my bulletproof attitude meant I was pushing them out of my life. I had to learn all over how to let people see the real, soft me inside.”
Sandra’s dad died when she was very young. He was her hero. They had fun. He was one hundred percent on her side. She tried to recreate that relationship all her life. Problem was that …