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Your free Self-Esteem Chapter

Straight from the pages of International Bestseller Hamster Wheel Relationships For Women: The Self-Esteem Chapter FREE for you!

Use the 4 cheat hacks and discover how to break down your self-esteem growth into doable chunks, with practical, doable exercises. 

Your Printable Choice of DESKTOP COVERS

The best way for us to achieve our dreams and our best version of ourselves is by shifting our attention into a growth mode.

We focus on where we want to go, surround ourselves with positivity, encouraging people and the resources that will help us focus on our goal.

Choose all or just one of 35 covers! You can use it as a slideshow screensaver or as a static or rolling desktop background.

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Your 'Habits to Drop' ebook

A short book with 9 habits to drop, plus the outlooks and habits to install in their place.

Easy to follow, practical and logical.

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Your 'Worksheets

I specially prepared for you these 3 worksheets.

These are areas that I had to change in my own life, and it had miraculous effects. My ADD husband is now my biggest supporter and totally dependable and (mostly) very responsible!

Follow along with my talk and you will totally get the need for these 3 very powerful worksheets

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I truly believed that I would never have support and that I had to do it all myself. My perfectionist ways lead to burnout and very little contentment. I want you to have the same joy, support and balance (WIP!) I have now.

So reach out, connect. Unfortunately I will not be sending you 3 emails daily, more as in when inspiration strike and when I have exciting news to share. And there is a real person on the other side if you want to connect!

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Our relationships with our fathers will have a significant influence on how we see men. It will determine whether we think they are trustworthy. It will influence whether we will be fearful of being abandoned by men. Through our father’s eyes we look at ourselves – this is how we imagine men will see us. Do we measure up? Or are we always going to over-compensate to make up for us not feeling worthy. And how much bad treatment will we take simply because we fear being abandoned?

If we are lucky enough to be treated by our dads like Princess Cheesecake, the One and Only, but with respect for our separateness, our entire view of ourselves changes. We expect more for ourselves, and we are faster to dismiss relationships that are toxic for us.

Wanting our father’s approval is a very normal desire for a little girl of any age. I remember how my father ridiculed people with normal fear, so at the age of six I decided I was not scared of his pack of ferocious Alsations. They did not eat me, so there must be some truth to the notion that dogs smell fear and will attack. But that experience of trying to impress my father meant that I could not connect to feeling fear. I did not know that I had fear of abandonment triggers, as I simply could not connect to any feelings of fear!

Leoni decided that she would have to be her two sisters’ caretaker. Her dad told her as the oldest they were her responsibility to make sure they were not bullied. So she built herself a bulletproof, tough attitude. ”It was very hard to make friends, as I did not let anyone see the real me. I was longing for a relationship in which I was accepted. I did not realise that my relationships kept failing because my bulletproof attitude meant I was pushing them out of my life. I had to learn all over how to let people see the real, soft me inside.”

Sandra’s dad died when she was very young. He was her hero. They had fun. He was one hundred percent on her side. She tried to recreate that relationship all her life. Problem was that …

 

 

 

 

 

 

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