No one should live day after day, struggling through relationships. Good relationships are our soft place to fall, our refuge from the world.

Everyone deserves to experience that!

Maybe you think it is really hard to change your life around?
Maybe you believe there is some mystery ingredient others know about?

I used to think exactly that!
This course will teach you 12 easily identifiable behaviors and habits to drop and show you how to replace it with empowering behaviors.
Sounds doable? Of course it is!

What will I learn

Let me take you step by step through one behavior (you did not even know you had) to drop per week

  • You will find out why you needed it
  • You will recognize your triggers
  • And one week at a time, we will put in place a healthy, empowering outlook or behavior. 
  • You will learn that you are an adult with choices who can redesign your life! 

If that sounds like something you want to achieve, read on…

Time Commitments and other Requirements

  • A twelve week course which you can do in your own time
  • You can come back to it anytime, as long as you want, but some of the bonuses are time sensitive
  • Every week will need about an hour of your time to do the self-evaluation, read through the course material and watch the short (less than 10 minutes) video.
  • You unlock the next module in your own time by completing a short quiz at the end of each module.
  • The weekly Facebook live session will be maximum 20 minutes long. It will remain available to watch in your own time.
  • The more transparent you are, the better results you will get!

Pre-Book this course as numbers will be limitted

"It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped" - Tony Robbins
Coming 15th June

Course Description

Every week you get:

  • A self-evaluating questionnaire to start with
  • Course Modules on the weekly topics
  • A Short Video to watch in your own time
  • A handy Tip to overcoming challenges associated with the week’s topic
  • An Empowering Communication Hack
  • A weekly Empowering Action
  • A quiz for evaluating your progress (no right or wrong answers!) You will also have a weekly opportunity to give your input on the course and ask for improvements or more explanation.

Support and Connection Course

If you are feeling overwhelmed and wanting the knowledge to change your life, this course will support you with a step by step weekly plan.


Week 1:Withdrawing

This Week’s Topics:

  • How effective is withdrawing?

  • What is better than withdrawing?

Week 2: Blaming

This Week’s Topics:

  • Blaming and victimhood

  • The How of Not-Blaming

Week 3. Justifying

This Week’s Topics:

  • The Hamster Wheel you cause by justifying

  • The resolution you provide by listening

Week 4: Judging

This Week’s Topics:

  • What does judging say about me? Have to be right!

  • How to cure judgemental living Self-Acceptance

Week 5: Protective Walls

This Week’s Topics:

  • Does a wall ever serve you?

  • What is the better option and will it kill me?

Week 6: Approval Seeking

This Week’s Topics:

  • The Why of approval seeking.

  • How to fix it

Week 7: Grudge Collecting

This Week’s Topics:

  • How does grudge-keeping harm you?

  • What is a better way?

Week 8: Self Bashing

This Week’s Topics:

  • Why you want to stop bashing yourself

  • How to stop!

Week 9: Going it Alone

This Week’s Topics:

  • Where did this habit start?

  • What is better?

Week 10: People Pleasing

This Week’s Topics:

  • Why do you need to please

  • Finding your “No’

Week 11: Ever been accused of being a Control-Freak?

This Week’s Topics:

  • Is controlling everyone and everything effective?

  • What works better?

Week 12: Victim Mentality

This Week’s Topics:

  • Why oh why?

  • How to step into your adult

Pre-Book this course as numbers will be limitted

"It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped" - Tony Robbins
Coming 15th May


When I learned which behaviors and outlooks were holding me back I could replace it with behaviors that now bring me real connection and support in my relationship.
Life changing and relationship altering solutions are offered for use in everyday life . New behaviors once adopted changed my life and relationships.
I can now stop and walk away with a spring in my step if something no longer serves me or gives me immense joy. It's really that simple"
Louise vn Liebenberg

About the Course Presenter

Louise is an artist and entrepreneur who happened to discover her passion for coaching and counselling through the hard knocks of life. She has a Diploma in Counselling and is a Life Skills Coach. She has been leading groups in transformation for the last 8 years. This includes groups at Akeso Psychiatric Clinic, Adult Child Anonymous Groups and Self Esteem Development Groups. 

Her client base is mostly referrals from those who have already achieved remarkable transforming results in their lives. She is highly skilled in helping you resolve childhood hurts and griefs and turning those with unconscious debilitating behaviors and limiting beliefs into empowered people with the ability to self-actualize their dreams.

As the founder of, she believes passionately in every human being’s ability to become self-empowered and self-actualizing.

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