If this is what you want

You want to 
- heal your life
- improve relationships
- realize ambitions
- have more self esteem

But, if this is you...

You know that something is not quite working, or that something is very wrong.
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You have tried every possibility, but life is just not getting better enough...
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Take the audit below to review and get clear on Action Points

Self Esteem Assessment

Maturity Level Assessment

Unresolved Grief Assessment

​Stress Level Assessment

Self Esteem Builder

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Self esteem, or the lack of it, is the single biggest cause of problems in our day to day lives.

Low Self Esteem results in

• interpersonal relationship challenges
• burnout
• anxiety and depression
• isolation
• lack of joy in life
• a sense of being alone
• feeling unaccepted
• people pleasing

High Self Esteem results in

• self acceptance
• relationships improving
• real connection
• getting support
• better communication
• better decision making
• more initiative
• achieving goals
• more energy

​Which do you prefer?
​If you want to improve your self esteem and if you want to improve your life, find out more...

Relationship Rescue

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Every relationship we have is an important relationship - friends, family, the cashier behind the till, the idiot driver in front of you.
​We can learn to deal better in all aspects of relationships, but intimate relationships are usually the relationships we ask help with first.
Intimate relationships
Almost every relationship can be rescued, as long as two people are willing to work on it.
Some relationships need more work, others just need a little tweak.
Sometimes a little bit of constant tuning keeps things humming smoothly.
We are all individuals, and relationships are just like that - there are natural ups and downs, and every relationship is unique. But the downs need not be that low, and the highs can be more the norm. Sometimes we just need tools which will help us to navigate our relationships better.
Two partners' involvement in the process is preferable, but even one partner who is doing the work will cause a ripple effect of improved relations.
​Read more...

Unresolved Childhood and other Grief

Sometimes a child sustains a terrible loss or hurt during childhood, and has to address the unresolved grief in later years, as it has not been adequately dealt with.
When a child has had to grow up too fast, whatever the reason, and has had to learn coping skills beyond his/her years, habits are established that will help the child to survive difficult circumstances.
These habits are often essential coping tools for a child who was insufficiently nurtured, protected and validated during crucial developmental stages.   But these habits will stop working when the child enters adulthood, and will continue to have negative ripple effects.
However, children are meant to be children. Children are meant to be parented by their actual primary caregivers, but these people are often themselves the product  of inadequate parenting. They may be doing their best, but may be dealing with their own life crisis or the child may just not be a match for them, or has just fallen through the cracks of their lives.
Self parenting leads to damaging limiting beliefs - read more...
Even as adults we can suffer grief and loss but have no adequate coping mechanisms, resulting in unresolved grief. That can lead to us being diagnosed with depression, cardiovascular problems, feeling stuck, substance abuse and decreased productivity. But you can get help...

Burnout, Anxiety and Trauma Recovery

Burnout, anxiety and depression are all physical manifestations that something is very wrong with our lives.
We are often so focused on the survival treadmill that we cannot see the outlooks, perspectives and world view that is keeping us in a negative situation.
Sometimes we need someone to be our blind spot mirror in order for us to see life in a more benevolent way, and learn strategies that can help us transform our life situations.
​We all buy into labels until we learn to take charge of our outcomes.
Do not accept labels unquestioningly as your bane in life! First be prepared to work through your unresolved childhood issues. Be prepared to look at the latest neuropsychology research. Be prepared to try something you have not tried before. Because if you show up willing to try what you have not tried before, you can achieve life changing miracles. I know, because that is the road I had to walk, climb and sometimes crawl."
Start changing your life right now, right here...

References

What is I-nfinite Potential all about?

It is an amazing thing when you find that you have been sleepwalking all of your life! It is estimated that we are spending 70 - 80% of our waking hours being driven by our sub-conscious. And the most powerful of those unconscious reactions have been cemented by the age of 7! 
This is all fine and well if you had an upbringing in which you were nurtured, affirmed and loved unconditionally, with firm but loving boundaries. But for most of us it is true that we sustained emotional injuries along the way, even during "happy" childhoods.
The good news is that you can become aware of how your story shaped your worldview as well as your habitual responses and actions. Becoming emotional mature and self sufficient is possible once awareness and self-knowledge has been established.
I-nfinite Potential was born from a desire to share the life changing tools I acquired with as many people as possible.
I know that it is possible to go from an outwardly centered perspective where other people is the source of your daily happiness - or unhappiness! - to being able to decide how your day is going to be, every day!

Nothing on this website is intended to be used to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease or disorder, nor should it be used as a substitute for your own health professional's advice. Always consult a suitable qualified professional on any specific mental health or medical problem or matter you may have.

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