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Hamster Wheel Relationships for Women
A Step by Step Process to Escape Unfulfilling Relationship Patterns
If you are caught in pointless spirals in which you repeat the same arguments and the same relationship disasters over and over, you will love this book.
I wrote this book for the desperate “me” from 12 years ago, who did not know what else to try, where to get help and indeed that there was another way to happiness.
For me, I now know that it is possible to really change your life from the inside out, that great relationships do exist, that they look different from what I thought, and that all I needed was better information.
This book is in workbook style. You do it in your own time, at your own pace, but with support always near in the form of a Free Facebook Support Group, where you can post your questions. Answers are posted once a week in the weekly Live Videos, but available to access in your own time.
I would love for you to have these tools and knowledge too!
About the Author, Louise VN Liebenberg
I am an irrepressible optimist dedicated to helping you become who you want to be!
OK, that’s not the full story, but as I am a visual kinda girl I thought I would tell you more about myself in pictures.
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